Just a thought: The need to be in a relationship

When you're single, all you see is happy couples.

                                                    And when you're taken, all you see is happy singles

Well that's true to some degree I suppose. Face it, some times you want to be in relationships and other times you just want people to leave you alone. But it's inevitable once you hit puberty. It's purely biology.

(crashcourse biology- biology basically means sex and not dying) 

  Blame your hormones all you want, as long as you take charge of your head and your heart, chances are.. you'll make it out unscathed. But truthfully, how hard is it to not want to be in a relationship? 

  When couples start forming all around you gradually.

  When seniors can't make it for an activity on valentines day due to "plans"

  When the girl sitting behind you fell in love with a schoolmate from your high school.

  
When your sisters dated so much more earlier than you.

 When a person who isn't as naturally gifted in looks get into a relationship even before you had a chance to even taste it. 

Perhaps I missed a meeting. Perhaps there was a relationship 101 that I didn't sign up for.

And looking at all the above. Reality hits you hard.

What has this need to be in a relationship done to you? You've become quite a spiteful person. Judging people and complaining like some grandma who witnessed the world war 3 firsthand (of course she didn't, duh) 

Getting into a relationship doesn't make you a better person. Nor does it grant you access to some exclusive club only for couples. There's no need to rush into one blindly just to fulfill the ideal image of being in a relationship. That just proves that you're not mature to weigh the outcomes and consequences. Your thoughtless move may cause suffering for another person. 

 Instead, wait till the right person comes along. And pray hard that everything falls right into place with the aid of fate. For now, focus on understanding yourself. 

haha. for instance, I didn't know I was quite the introvert till..

This Buzzfeed quiz got bullseye on everything I liked to do in the description. 

But the word introvert glared at me like a stranger. 

Okay I yield.

              Introvert it is then.

 Lesson learnt: There's always something to learn about yourself.