Daily encounters in life : When meeting elderly people

  Walked in to a organic store to buy vegetarian ham after dinner, I was in a state that somehow managed to fit in the category of being presentable ._. (messy ponytail.sweaty.. and bad breath due to dinner -A- , and no, no make up on .who da hell wears makeup just to have it all smeared while you stuff your face with burger? ok maybe some people do :P but whatever.lol. )

   Back to the point..
I headed in to the shop and an aunty sitting down directly in front of me smiled at me. Of course natural reflexes prevented me from not smiling back :)  Anyways, After greeting her with my eyeless smile (my eyes disappear into 2 straight lines when I smile :P) ,I walked past her and headed towards the aisle full of goods. While walking past her I heard her say "so pretty " .

._. ... I looked around... no one else was there ._. ohmaigawd she was referring to me ._.
    T^T... thank you auntie..you very pretty too!! ... lol (yeah yeah i'm dramatic, whateva :P)

But lol, elderly aunties tend to like me a lot ._. So after picking up bits and pieces of what all these aunties see , I came up with a few conclusions. (credits to my friends who tell me what their mom comments about me )

  So point 1 ... My features. lol. Nope I ain't joking.(sorry if I come off as vain to you, but your opinion really doesn't matter :P)  Loads of moms just look at me and whisper to their daughters "UR FREN SO FAIR!"  (hopefully they don't accuse me of being a vampire ._. ) . Or maybe because I've the very asian look (mixture of korean/jap/chinese) which I've been told. Another friend told me I've got the "good-daughter-in-law" look ._. (WHUTTT? -_- OKAY...) I told my bro bout that, he was like.. "lol, that's the hokkien look la, hokkien people got those genes wan~" . I'm not complaining or anything, having these features are great since I can easily get on good terms with them elderly folks. (thank you mom,dad,grandma,grandpa,and ancestors from china ... for the..uh.. good genes lol..) 

  Next stop.. probably my name ._. yet again thanks a lot to my siblings who decided to name me after happiness. Them elderly folks really like to toss my name around and start a convo bout it. I swear the next thing they do is start singing happy by +Pharrell Williams  and go "cuz I'm HAPPY~~"
that song is very addictive by the way :P Anyways, I guess next time when I become a parent I should name my kid after something like my name ._. it'll help them in the future :)

But truth to be told, to be liked by them elderly folks, you just gotta be sincere and well mannered :) Just follow confusius's philosophies ~ it's as easy as that, some folks are hard to handle (it feels like they hate your mere existence -_- ) but anyways, be nice to them.

    Keep in mind that you should be nice to them in hopes that another would be the same towards your parents as well :) 

My oh-so-famous eyeless smile :P and YAYYYY A TIGERRRR RAWRRRR, tiger also got eyeless smile :P

**ITS SLEEPING !! NGAWWWWWW TIGERS!!! **

holy crap I'm one of them

Came across this article so I took the test (link below)
16 habits of highly sensitive people

me..a highly sensitive extrovert...

HOLY CRAP ._.

A chinese counseling session

  This post is mostly gonna be mandarin since the counseling session was conducted in mandarin. Normal people go to counselors and voice out their problems and let counselors console or advice them, on the other hand, I go to a guy who sits at the corner of the temple telling me about my flaws,my future, my marriage etc while referring to a book called "tong shu" and my date of birth.
Do I believe in all these voo-doo thinga-ma-jig stuff?
50/50 (are you kidding me? I've been bugged by a ghost :p)

But lemme tell you this, that uncle who "counseled" me brought me to tears while telling me about my self. What's more? I didn't even know I was crying ._. meh. ( dammit -_-) I'm smiling throughout the "talk" but my tears kept coming. like ._. OMG SCARY SIA.

  刚刚才算命回来， 那个算命的uncle很够利准。 准到很恐怖。

我的性格－
 “你脾气很坏！一定要改啊！ ，还有。。你不要一直钻牛角尖。 你不是不聪明，就是懒惰吧了！还有你要惜福啊！你很会享受，很喜欢到处跑。 你野心很大，但是要有行动！你眼泪浅（walao）你学不三不四的东西很厉害。你是不是有时后会讲小骗话？ ＊点头＊ 到最后你在骗自己！＊uncle 准到很够利＊”

身体状况－
“你身体不好，冷气开小一点，多做运动！！”

还有。。。
“你如果肯做，就会成功。改天必定是女强人。做事要认真和勤劳。要往好的方面想，不要听外人乱讲，听家人的话。”

there are some more stuff but i think its classified info for now :) I might sound too vain if I talk about it here . One more thing, he said I was born with nothing. meaning I came to this world with nothing, then he asked me if my family condition last time was bad. YEP. lol. My house was caught in a fire and my family lost everything. So technically... I came to this world with nothing at all. lol. And something about me getting married late being good (rich dude, married to somewhere far ,things like that)
All in all, he urged me to put my studies first, then my career, lastly relationship.  lol.

**main purpose of this post is for my own reference next time, who knows? it might be true :p**